Wednesday, August 23, 2006

Hard times:

There is a girl and a boy.Both used to like each other and then it turns out into love. They had a really good time though it was a very less time.They found to understand each other and try to not hurt each other's feelings.The situations takes the boy far for good reasons. They agree for certain level of understanding and continue with their relationships.But then the bad luck always play the role. Something goes wrong in the whole part,some loophole or something lacking. But what is lacking? Where did the problem arise? Infact, what is the problem? I still wonder about it.

As taught in management courses lack of communication, sorry i will correct myself "Lack of proper communication leads to huge disaster in organizations", similarly here in social world the law is applicable too. Lack of proper communications can screw up the relations. But then it's difficult when one is not at all ready to talk as well as even don't accept that fact. well, it hurts a lot.Pains a lot, as there is somewhere in some corner a true deep love in the relationship which is not allowing to say or portray anything negative in the situation and always positively asks to give a new chance.

This realation is becomming more confusing. No proper or let's say exact state is there?. If you ask that does that relationship exists currently,it will be difficult to answer. It's like the end of it is not declared as one person can not say things directly or clearly as they are and keep the other person hanging up middle in the error. Sometimes, initially taking care of the other person is found very sweet but then the same thing with the distance, going far and after a time is found annoying and is considered as advice which is not to be heard off by the intended person. Well, this was just a simple example. Many these sentimental things makes this thread rough and difficult to find happiness in it. Thus, when a situtation comes which is a kind of dilema like " the relationship exists or not", it is one of the hardest time to face.

Well, nothing in hands except be patient and tolerant and wait and watch the game of time and destiny. One just prays for the success of the other for all happiness and success. This is a hidden true love. Well, but then also decides not to try anymore on these issues, as self-respect comes into the picture. This shows the bitterness in the relations.

Tough time. Just hope for some unpredictable magic which works to make everything like initial stage makes the survival a bit soothing. well, this reminds me of the famous saying
"Love and not Time heal wounds"

1 comment:

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