Everything Happens for a Reason:

Today was a very busy day as since morning I was just into my work. It's like 2:00 at night that I m getting time to relax. From morning itself, labs, lectures and the whole of the remaining time in preparing thr SRS document of the project. When I started the document, I thought that our strategy was wrong of making whole document by a pair of person out of a team of 10 members. Instead, I thought that the strategy followed by the other groups of dividing the parts of the document amongst the group members was a better idea. But, when I am reaching now almost at the end of the document I really feel that whatever strategy we decided was better than others in my perspective, as the quality, flow and consistency of the document is maintained thourghout and no effort and headache of integration of parts and to review for making sure about non-conflicting statements checks. And, at the end the quality of the document and the work satisfaction feeling is really priceless for me. Thus, today I observed the effect of famous saying "Whatever Happens, Happens for Good".

I also had negative outcomes in relationships from few days back and was feeling guilty for the thought that may be I might have committed some fault or the situations were faulty for which I did'nt like to accept the things happened. As, I don't like hurting and break-ups in realtions. So, I was bit upset for spoling few of my relations in the last fortnight or so. But then now when I get to find some few hidden and hard-to-believe realities of those people with whom my relations were spoiled, I feel thankful to god for whatever the results he had destined to those realtions.

I now even more confidently believe "Whatever Happens,Happens for the Good".

God always take care of our all things and keeping in mind the risk factors, he has writes our destiny. When things happen which are not being expected by us, we blame and curse the moments and situations of that time.But, when in future you look back, you will feel that what had happened was perfectly sequenced to get you in a good state. And the moments which you had cursed becomes kind of blessings. Well, it's easy to write and suggest that "All things happens for a reason which always lead to some good in future", but when time really tests us, we fail.But from now onwardsIi will try my best for not cursing any situations though bad one and would find some good reward which might have been a target of long-term vision of god. As, cursing is not going to change the destiny for me.

Well here I remeber a very effective quote which has changed my thing a lot:

"I can't choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it."

Just change in approach and feel happy and good from inside.It has really worked for me.